Why always been passionate relentlessly annoying?



First, the poor, "a lover"?

See the "passionate" term, we believe that everyone has their own understanding, but at this moment is not the so-called sentimental "sentimental kind" means, but to put more attention. In fact, the "worrying" as depicted in the idiom out of the feeling is precisely this "sensitive" accurate interpretation.

In fact, the most primitive and sentimental parents for their children's care and attention, always reflected in this passionate, bits and pieces of them, it is precisely this kind of affectionate parents for their children to ensure the children's safety and health, and when we place at the time of this state, which is the previously mentioned "take care parent" the internal energy at work.

The reason why the talk "a lover" when they wander their parents, because the reality is there is no lack some of the "good man" - when they meet her love goddess and they will habitually hope and strive to use every possible way care to get each other's heart. In other words, in the event that people who make their own heart only knows how to "take care Parent" The energy to lead himself. When this energy is dominant, apart from the title of which is quite ambiguous, "a lover" can describe, recognized for another man in this state is called "cheap bastard" she was.

At this moment, a lover's heart for the goddess has come to the state of panic. In order to understand each other, can not sleep all night to see her from the beginning until now play QQ space inside all the signatures, photos and logs ...... To be the last communication, within five minutes will refresh her circle of friends to see see if there is nothing you can point Like, comment, or even specifically ask for additional news of the latest release ...... in order to give each other care, always looking forward to sunny dump heavy rain, thunder masterpiece middle of the night, and then quickly go beyond that of a message to represent the heart of great concern and attention ......

If you follow the truth in terms of ethics and so bound to a love story with a happy ending, which is a lover ultimately rely on their own undying persistence and meticulous care to win the hearts and minds of the goddess, each other and eventually became lovers dependents, get married, get the blessings of family and friends, and then grow old, Enenaiai spend a lifetime ......

In real reality, how is it? I believe we were already ten million heart "grass mud horse" in the Pentium! If the thought of what the answer, then it is to restrain a moment, and then look down "ruthless woman," What is the status bar.

Second, the innocent "ruthless woman"?

Here first to emphasize that we borrowed "a lover" and "ruthless woman" these two terms, but what use is because "Shizuo chase Goddess" as an example of the process of analysis, for the truth is shared "vice versa", for absolutely no gender discrimination.

Closer to home, what is mentioned in this article were "ruthless woman" mean? In fact, from the perspective of transactional analysis terms it is a "free-type children's" intrinsic value relatively high energy girl. This girl is the biggest feature of romantic love, the pursuit of new ideas, like some people stay with their own crazy together, and hate is constrained or nagging.

Why should this girl called "ruthless woman" mean? Not because this man tough talk, but because of its sloppy, arbitrary personality would not take the time to try to figure out ways of the world inside the complex connotation, they always have a say one, Straight heart fast, to not go through the wind blows try to figure out each other's subtext, so people have to communicate with their straightforward order to temper some of you ...... Imagine, when a girl was speaking in front of a kind of "lover's" eye on the time, what would happen?

If you are a girl ...... when you wake up after the discovery of a circle of friends since each state phone tops after the micro-channel are the same person and made a point of praise when you reply ...... this day wearing miniskirts and winter solstice girlfriends together eating Haagen-Dazs gossip to the climax when someone receives "you cold?" "remember to wear extra clothes!", "circle of friends still see you play outside, go home early." the SMS ...... fool class understand what he meant as still loaded takes Baidu did not dare to say to yourself a "sensitive words" when ......

If I were a girl, I will not only not be "steadfast," the boy and "For shame also said" touched, but one of the most direct judgments:?! "This guy is not on glue and if I would like TMD straight, put a big tail hawk! ...... you cold control your aging mother bird thing! I do not care my mom, how can you find fault? ...... "

As a girl, perhaps after a few years, I suddenly want to remember the end of his life, when life together as one pair of them had their own affectionate, attentive black boy was I pulled from inside the micro-channel in ...... at this time, really can not accept this in the eyes of other people may be "good man", "spoonies", "good husband" approach. Does not matter good or bad, is not acceptable, even in the eyes of some people he is so "ungrateful", "unreasonable"!

Third, 10 bet nine lost helpless

When we respect, "a lover" and "ruthless woman" have a deeper understanding, and perhaps you will wonder why such a caring and attentive parents can not impress the girl's heart, but will especially tired of kicking each other? Is "homely warmth" unable to retain "a restless heart" it?

In fact, from the care of their parents and care from the opposite sex there is an essential difference, that is between parents and children has inherent, strong intimacy this intimacy can be within a certain range (not spoiled) because "care - is take care "of such a process is reinforced and become more solid, but not because the" care "only had a relationship.

Similarly, gender (or sex) is concerned, if already established a close relationship with each other, through the care and attention it is possible to some extent (or just can not be too far one way) to increase the stability of love. If, however, does not have such a relationship to each other as the premise, then when one tries to take care of this concern and to invite them to establish such a relationship with yourself, unless majored in psychology or other methods know ourselves, we can only rely on the big hit shipped. If the pursuit of the other side just in front of the phrase "free type Children" ultra-high "ruthless woman", then "Shizuo" label designated after the tape can not afford to pick up, and efforts are often only in exchange for a "spare tire" of honor.

In fact, whether it is "passionate" or "ruthless", they are just a personality and habits of external manifestation, had no good and bad, right and wrong distinction, but because each of us are most familiar with these himself the most easy to overlook the personality and habits around, or waiting in the pursuit of love, when they are put in the hands of the original master sleepwalk autonomy to luck, life and put himself onto the "ten lost nine gambling" helpless predicament.

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