We generally believe that good luck is good luck by chance. Of course, to some extent, indeed yes.
But life we think that the "lucky" Many things are not so accidental. Instead, it is directly related to our behavior and espoused worldview. After all, the prize has to buy lottery tickets. As business people Shibao Bo Migelanni (Bob Miglani) said:
I met a lot of successful people - the long-term harmonious relationship between husband and wife, a successful career woman, billionaire, but very happy to destitute people, the reason they "lucky" because their thinking ingenuity, and some action.
Yes, research shows that people think there are differences between the behavior of lucky people and think bad. Professor of psychology at the University of Hetefude "luck factor" author Dr. Richard Wiseman (Dr. Richard Wiseman) studied since that lucky and unlucky people in a 10-year experiment behavior, they are going off to enlist an advertisement in the newspaper. Consider themselves lucky and unlucky people not only face significantly different way of life, and bad luck lucky people also benefit from human behavior, learned to face life. In other words, life orientation luck is not static, but can be changed by adjustment of individual views.
Four ways we can all take advantage of the so-called "lucky" by force:
[Seize the day]
"Time ruthless," psychiatrist Marc class Siqi Ke (Mark Banschick) wrote in "Psychology Today" in the. Lucky people make the most of the time, will not be ready to start tomorrow promises action and missed opportunities. They get involved in social activities, even if do not like. They now write e-mail, rather than pushed to later.
As classes Siqi Ke said, "do not do something now will never, never do the future may have a similar opportunity, but this opportunity is not - and you are no longer the same time change our own. "
[Consider themselves lucky]
Consider themselves lucky people more optimistic and cheerful dealing with problems. So that they are better at the twists and turns of life regarded as unpleasant surprises. Wiseman in the "Reader's Digest" described the unlucky guy who learned to act as lucky as: "80% of people happier, more satisfied with their lives - and also more of a luck. hapless subjects said she adjusted the attitude - expecting good fortune, not to think bad thing - she's gone bad luck. "
[] Should not be confused and fortuitous luck
Financial strategist Michael Mauboussin (Michael Mauboussin) told the "Wired" magazine: "People often confuse luck and occasional use of the two words I like to occasionally seen as system-level stuff, but luck is at the individual level if. I called 100 people to guess the result of the coin toss, according to the law of chance, there will be a few people in a row of five have guessed right. If you happen to be one of five consecutive guessed right people, and that is your luck. "
The fact is that it is important not to disadvantage occasionally as a meaningful, regular bad luck. Fortunately, people seem to pay attention to not happen to them bad things - certainly would not think so.
concentrate
Some studies, including Wiseman fortunate habit, he found that people who consider themselves lucky unlucky people are more sensitive than think. He described an experiment in which:
I gave lucky and unlucky people a newspaper issued, asking them to browse and told me how many there are photos. On average, the unlucky people took about two minutes to a few photos, lucky people less than a minute. why? Since the second edition of the newspaper there is a message saying: ". Stop counting, there are 43 photographs in this newspaper," the news accounts for half layout, font larger than 2 inches. What message is eye-catching, but unfortunately often missed, lucky people often see.
why? Wiseman explained that the reason for this difference is that the indirect effects of anxiety. The so-called hapless tend to be more anxious, anxiety and difficulty in concentrating and attention related - especially when it comes unforeseen circumstances.
(Author: Meredith Melnick)
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