Dr. Ramani Durvasula professor of psychology at the University of California at Los Angeles, said the couple together to IKEA shopping may hurt feelings. The IKEA store psychologists describe as an "emotional nightmare maze," she said she would take the form of flat furniture assembled to treat such emotional problems.
For example, in the kitchen area because of the future who will cook and kindle strife and heavy shelf area in the negotiations may lead to tension and stress. The real test is when the emotional purchase items in their home time. Coffee table will not cause problems, but especially tedious Liatorp storage cupboard unit will become a "divorce maker."
In the survey study, Dr. Durvasula to invite some IKEA shopping couples or couples, after the end of the shopping cart, please describe them through.
How not to hurt the feelings of shopping
IKEA spokesman for the American Janice Simonsen said: "We have realized that the couple in a shopping mall may lead to a dispute, I am glad there is a corresponding emotional healing programs are very pleased to become part of the emotional relationship between treatment yet although Ikea couple. Shopping made a special study philosophy, but we hope that every visitor to the shop has a good shopping experience. "
A staff recommendation: Before the couple going shopping, do your homework first on catalogs, full discussion to reach a consensus as far as possible, to avoid disputes. Many couples because the move or the purchase of a new home only to shop, and this in itself may generate intense pressure.
According to a British survey in 2013, 12% had experienced frustration and anger in the renovation of the new home of the couple, he had considered divorce or separation. And another survey is about the same to the mall to buy the couple's home, 17 percent said they were to end debate.
Dr. Durvasula said she often went to Ikea to observe the interaction between the couple, which is like a "psychology porn." "IKEA is like emotional relationship sexual maze (labyrinth), very charming. You will see people put items in their shopping cart, it was taken out of the goods from the shopping cart in the mall I often see disputes. Dispute It will gradually upgrade, and finally become a hurricane. "
Channel became twisted maze
Children are often the most appropriate home happy person, but it is also the most intense part of the couple. When people shopping often discuss the child, or would like to have another child, if it is not a child, not to have children in the future will become the most important part of the conversation.
In the bedroom area you can see a lot of couples lying in bed, of course, better to go to promote feelings. Some couples begin to discuss intimate relationship, there are also some dark comments such as "we are here to lie down and do nothing."
In the kitchen area, a person will pick up the pan, he / she said: "? You're not cook, do we need this" everything is neat, this will lead to tensions. You'll see someone pointing towel said:. "You never wash"
Frame is also a source of tension, where the couple would likely stay in step. It attaches great importance to visual culture, so many couples will stay here, bring a photo select the right frame.
Emotional relationship between husband and wife is a shared experience, improper handling of a dispute will become a minefield, like "Why are you mom pictures my mom pictures than to be more?"
(Translation: a via telegraph)
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