All animals are created equal, but some animals are more equal than other animals. - "Animal Farm"
You have played "love online" do? This is a multiplayer online game players in the world's six billion "Earth" The server performed.
There are many high-end players in the "love online", for example, paying money to the player with the type sports car, luxury, diamond, Luyiweideng handbags and other epic equipment start to break technology-based players in his own profound unparalleled ability to be wide open chopped plug-type plug the novice player has innate weapon in a small stick into a big huge thick black mace to kill the big four.
If you do not have epic equipment, innate ability and unparalleled open plug-in, how to break new village named "first date" Big Boss of it? Let us together with love and justice, and the following methods to hunt Boss now!
First, do not like the heat like attack
Do not too aggressive on the first date, the only perceptibly too aggressive. There are two reasons:
First: the relation 's law (Yerkes-Dodson law), motivation and performance between the inverted U-shaped. In simple terms, too strong motivation (too aggressive) performance will deteriorate. Dating itself will be some little nervous, this level of motivation already can give you better performance, but if the appointment too want to express themselves will have too strong motives, but will make the performance deteriorated.
Second: Everyone will have external hostility manifests itself in external and each person will have a defensive self-protection. If it is too aggressive in dating, it is easy to feel that you will be the other strong offensive, the other side will begin to self defense. Say a little too abstract, for metaphor. When you toward prey, if found, will begin to prey escape.
So please just normal to face appointment. Well, I also know that this is easier said than done. Ah ... If you want to ask what method I would recommend before the appointment, go to You tube to see two hours zu bo Mi starring. {Boys applicable, if you do not know who is self-zu bo Mi Google, she is a good girl.
Second, the terrorist activities it
Have heard of the famous suspension bridge effect it? Drawbridge effects experienced dangerous or irritating situations can help promote feelings. Its genesis is in danger, people mistakenly put intense physiological responses such as heart rate is mistaken as love. So what are you waiting for, reach haunted house, jumping machine, roller coaster, see Ghost and other activities on your dating journey now!
Third, can not learn love Plato
Love is the need for physical contact, physical contact in the moment, feeling there will be changes "quality" of. A survey refers to physical contact when couples break up than couples break up no physical contact is more sad, so do not learn platonic love, oh. Having said that, there may be some color color reader has entered into his strange delusions ...... Come on, I just say what mop hand oh. Ignore those residents delusional world, we take a look at what a good event!
a) skating? - Ah, good, oh!
b) a haunted house? - Actually while adding drawbridge effect? ! Mr. Big was! My pleasure.
c) kickboxing? - No wonder you're still single ...
d) kissing? --Policemen! Fast call the police!
Seriously, please do not really kissing each other. Many rapists reason crime is that they have the wrong perception of sex, feel each other just "say no to the mouth of the body is very honest." Please, go back to the real world, do not fantasies.
Fourth, it quickly summon a wingman (Recommend)
Wingman refers assists persons. Please find a heterosexual who assists in dating you appear, and you "encounter" of the opposite sex who assists were a close and friendly conversation, the goal is to make your date uncomfortable.
This is the psychology of scarcity principle, the principle is to maintain the core of the shortage of vested interests, because "fear of losing something" than "I hope to get a something of equivalent value," greater impact on people. Compared to give, people do not want to lose. Experiments have pointed out that if people want to lose calm sad mood, they need to get things lost twice to do so.
If you own your date think he has got you, but when your Wingman appear, your date will be afraid to lose your feeling, so that he would be more nervous you.
Yan PSWingman higher value, the better the results.
Fifth, to confession after dinner
Acronym confession to just after dinner, is all written "confession to find someone less local and late at night after dinner when it is carried out." Although I do not Recommend the confession on the first date, but this is your date, these things decide it.
Some people in crowded public places confession, I will not speak of such high-risk behavior after the failure will be embarrassed to cry. We talk about Maslow's hierarchy of needs. In fact, people have a need for security and social, and the demand for security is the first in the demand for social, that people will be safe and then to pursue social. Need for security refers to the need to have a sense of and social needs is the need for friendship, love and so on. Fewer people than the more private place more people in public places gives a sense of security in crowded places is not conducive to increasing the success rate of confession. (In the case of a public place is more successful courtship, it is actually very good understanding, because her boyfriend gave his girlfriend a sense of security itself can woo and advertising are different.)
Some people at a meeting to tell the truth, but in fact confession would be better at the end of a date. Because when people make decisions is affected by many factors, and in a wake in the morning to make a decision, then, external factors affecting the decision would be but if you do decide in the evening, external factors influence decisions (for example, what happened today ) will be more. In simple terms, if you are in an excellent performance in the appointment, in the confession may be somewhat extra points. Therefore, after the confession to dinner.
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