Tanabata is approaching, the past two days reading One king had a dim premonition surging malicious circle of friends, then, a big wave will feast FIG flooding back. Roses, mug shot, movie tickets, or any other, no matter what the sun is in the red berries fruit swear words: show affection!
Although Valentine's Day from the last six months, however, but immersed in the love of couples who do not mind going to continue to show, show style, show level, while ignoring their single Spitfire eyes and Wang "show loving die quickly," the curse. The Single Wang, once they stand up, the same can not be non-show.
Today, just as we talk about One king read this behavior show affection, love is two people thing, why people bored show affection?
Why excessive show of affection will be hate it?
The highest-profile and most literary show affection
Show affection in English called PDA (Public Display of Affection), the word quite new, but show affection behavior is regardless of race, age and country, there has been known to the world.
Chinese ancients often not free love, but parents Meishuozhiyan, to the wedding time, or you want to show. Our forefathers, the wedding was "good cooperation of the two surnames, on to something ancestral temple, down to following generations also," This is a very important thing to be widely advertised, elders from relatives and friends, neighbors announced the couple relationship form.
By this wedding "show of affection," and more to announce the consolidation of both male and female gender roles and social responsibilities.
In addition, there are also ancient ancients "show loving" approach. For example, the minister of the Western Han Zhang open, often to his wife painted eyebrows, leaving full Chang'an City know. There are good Han Emperor went there complain that this is too high-profile show, loving, and the whole town knows that the people, undermine decency minister. Emperor eventful find Zhang open to questioning. Zhang Chang replied: "I heard that in the boudoir of the couple's private, there are more excessive than the thrush thing ah." Emperor think makes sense, there is no blame him.
It has also been written into the "Han", spread the millennium, this show was loving but gone with sparkle today.
There is a very cattle show affection. Li Bai's "Peach Blossom Pool thousand feet deep, not as Wang Lun love for me," compared with this are weak burst. The same is the Tang Dynasty poet, Yuan Zhen and Bai Juyi this group of friends is really good special love. Yuan Zhen in Langzhong State West Temple wall filled Bai's poems, and then write one hundred Juyi on Yuan Zhen's poem, made a screen. He returned to Yuan Zhen replied: ".. I write poetry Jun Ying Temple wall, I question the king and the king of the sentence full screen phase known where two leaf duckweed sea"
One read Jun believe that this was really loving the show is theatrical enough, enough to force the grid, it will not make people feel tired.
In social networks show affection, totally can not stop you?
In today's era of social networks, the show was just a loving couple who loved Yuyuehuodong daily, on a personal home page to refresh a little, there a couple of overwhelming self-timer and emotional confession blowing.
Some single party who is quietly lifted the torch on the network since the formation of the couple burned to death a symbol of the Legion and accusing: "! Online show was so high profile, it is necessary"
One read king to tell a single person, indeed necessary, especially on social networks. In order to improve the self-image, they will have the show go on.
US Shekuaixuejia Irving Goffman has proposed "Mime theory", the person in the society than an actor on the stage. The stage can be divided into two front and back office areas. Everyone at the front desk, that is, other people can see where the use of look and demeanor show that information wants to be accepted, the background is the actor left the reception, rest and ease the performances were tense place.
Today, the social network public shelter, the perfect background moved to the foreground, which erupted around the clock to everyone is an actor, and after people regardless of their predecessors. Leaving the local population on social platforms published text and the pictures are very safe po mask, we can wear them performing his own ideal image, even before claiming Tomboy girl self-timer also tangled several angles Well .
Ideal self-image in social business platform is extremely important, in general, people want to show their good, beautiful, popular side. The show of affection, the better performance of their quality of life and excellent attraction, of course, is the image of the social bonus items, show affection show was launched into live performances can be made into a high romance.
Your loving, others of "spam."
In fact, social networking sites show of affection have to be careful, "show affection to die quickly," has long been the keyboard into a single mass party who curse Proverbs.
American one called "Relationship Between Science" ( "The science of relationships") book, scholars have conducted show affection through Facebook experiment results showed that those who regularly appear on social media to enrich their own lives and stop the show of affection people are not very fond of the others.
Social psychologists Hafofude School professor Jie Mingle says this: "On facebook, if you are too contrived social relationship will be very dangerous, because even your friends know you too well, they will be more do not like you."
"Show of affection" on social networks are a lot of people despise, it is because its frequency is too high, people can not get rid of. A person over personal information, it will be defined as "useless information", just like you on the street to distribute leaflets promoting unwanted guest in another person's mind. If this sell-off in case of a three-step two-step, of course, is a bore to be raised torch.
What's more, a cold lonely emptiness of the mind, how can withstand the "fun is theirs, I did not," the stimulus?
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