The upcoming National Day holiday, Golden Week is both a travel and shopping peak, is married to a climax. "With the elements" practices also makes some happy some worry.
"With the elements" of the Chinese people is a custom, in fact, is a good thing, but it does so with the elements a little stale, here we seem to see is how foreigners with elements of? They do not have the feel that way?
What is "with elements"?
Also known with the ceremony, the trouble. Marriage Customs. In men and women before marriage, according to relatives and friends to pay the agreed amount, after doing focus gift, delivery will be married men and women. Old gift giving is limited to the groom's relatives, family friends and relatives also modern woman from the vulgar.
The world has "elements with" customs it?
United Kingdom?
The Chinese wedding invitation as the "red bomb" as an expression of the pressure to attend the wedding with elements of their own economy. However, compared with the British people at the cost of the wedding is really nothing.
According to statistics, the average cost of the British people to attend a wedding of 440 pounds, roughly equivalent to their weekly salary. Each year the average British wedding to attend five times, which is to spend 2200 pounds.
But the difference is with the people, the biggest British wedding elements not spend money, but the cost of their own clothing. An average of only 100 pounds more than a little gift for the British woman who will attend the wedding specializes in buying new clothes, spending 440 each to attend the wedding, the newlyweds, and the rest are used to dress himself.
United States?
In the United States, people do not get married for the gifts and distress, most people would choose to send their ceramics, bedding, etc. to express blessing of the couple. Wedding hero will be the principle of "I need to," the gifts.
As a wedding gift, the couple will be in a big department store in advance (Department Store) in the Wedding Registry (Wedding Registry) registration and inform relatives and friends that they have at some stores do reservations, so that relatives and friends need to know where selected for their wedding gifts. Typically, wedding registries every department store chain, and friends will use the new computer search list of items specified in order to understand the actual needs of the couple, then pick out their willingness to purchase new items to the amount of the gift is according to the degree of their relationship with the couple to decide, because the price of each item are clearly listed in the above list, it looks at a glance.
Japan
In Japan, the general relationship between friends, with the amount of elements mostly 3000-5000 yen, amounting to two hundred about a better relationship to 10,000 yen, the family elders to much more certain, 3 10000-50000 yen, or a little more. Japan's per capita monthly salary amounting to approximately $ 2-30000 yuan, so relatives and friends wedding "with elements" generally not a burden on their lives. "The Japanese gifts only for the expression of mind, more money would not represent good relationship, the higher the price can only prove a high level of elders or leaders, out of juniors or subordinates to take care of, he must be out more than others."
Korea?
In South Korea, the spring and autumn weddings marriage "with elements" of the season. The number of Korean "with elements" also has an unwritten practice. For example, an ordinary relationship to 50,000 won, equivalent to about 300 a good relationship to 100,000 won. Initially, the Korean gold gifts to congratulate or to share sorrow, and for the big things while spending much of the financial burden to share a little hero.
Germany
German also very focused on gifts, but they just do not give money to send gifts. Not only birthday wedding gifts, gifts to friends and family gatherings will also gifts between husband and wife and his son. Gift pay attention to economical and practical, the sums do not care, only care about Song of concentration. Sometimes a bouquet of flowers, and sometimes a box of chocolates, a box of Chinese tea Furthermore, the sender feel sweaty, recipients flattered.
But with the Chinese people in different places, the German Open and will face expressed gratitude after receiving the gift. The owner is also happy to receive the gifts are laid out, like a gift Great Exhibition. Guests will not be complacent for their own ceremony thick, I do not feel embarrassed for their ceremony thin. The owner will not to gift the guests thickness points a rank or grade, all guests will be subject to the owner's hospitality.
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