"Chinese Mother" has been fire people get bored. In contrast, there is a sense uncle almost negligible: rarely have them full of delight and dramatic tags, labels and even on they do not like to get together, in twos and threes on up to the next cell down in the corner Chess in the Square dance aunt not far from the bridge silently tai chi, or quietly fishing in the water ......
Aunt and uncle later life why the big difference? Why buying in frontline fighting is always the aunt? Why uncle aunt uncle willing behind?
Grandpa man really does not it?
Today, I read One female monarch from property rights, masculinity, as well as middle-aged woman cross-cultural research in the field of vision a little common sense, to talk about the low-key Chinese gentlemen.
Aunt grab gold is not only because the natural keen shopping femininity dictates, but also because they hold the family purse strings.
In 2011, HSBC released a Chinese family financial report shows that 63 percent of the Chinese mainland female master property rights. The data released by mainland scholars even higher: 77.3% of married women in charge of the Chinese mainland financial power at home, in China Taiwan, this proportion is as high as 70%.
This phenomenon, emphasizing patriarchal ancient China, in fact, it has been common. Such as the Song Dynasty, the older the woman general in charge of the family financial expenses, because there was a man died early, and seniority.
In strict compliance with patriarchal next door neighbor Japan, married women control the family financial power has become routine.
From the social roles of women and femininity, the physiological conditions of women than men inherently fragile, in virtue of the power, brave and masculine complete survival of the fittest primitive society, women would rarely directly involved in the competition for survival of men, but inwardly cast female director, managed to bring back a man from outside prey.
Starting from the psychological man, the reason they are willing to let the woman in charge of finance and financial management, because men are more inclined to venture out and create more wealth, rather than the existing property were conservative care, but also not very good at avoidance risk.
So, this is a long-term run-out of male and female characteristics, the most conducive to maintaining and improving the results of household wealth.
However, women in charge of property rights, read in One king eyesight, Asian women and Egypt's remote areas (where the family man will decentralization wife to decide the allocation of labor, and raise a large family of expense expenditure) unique phenomenon. In the West family, property rights have been generally rests in the hands of her husband. Why is this so? This later.
Grandpa does not love square dance, because they are more willing to do "the man to do the job."
Square dancing is not very good, although classified as a dance, but stressed the body language and the necessary flexibility, it is still being treated as feminine performance. Moreover, this is also very lively collective behavior fit the female psychology - a woman who likes to get a sense of the presence and identity by establishing intimate relationships.
These elements clearly incompatible with masculinity.
The vast majority of the Square Dance uncle shunned, leaving his wife to make old sister in the night, because men tend to be with the "Woman heap" cut to keep the body and emphasize their masculinity.
In the United States sociologist Luo Lisha "alternative modernity", a similar scene everywhere. She was in the 1980s came to Hangzhou China fieldwork, in a call-fu silk factory, she noted that women focus on the work area, male rarely -Fu developed in the 1990s, silk manufacturing Zhuanshuai from prosperity, the industry began to be seen as a lack of technical and intellectual content, the increasing proportion of women, fewer men would choose to join the job seekers "women's business."
People to old age, gentlemen fact, there are fitness needs, moreover, are keen sports, masculinity has been a very important element, they just do not find a more suitable temporary men's movement.
Gentlemen good get together, do not like naughty, do not inquire about the news, preference quiet leisure projects - at home watching the news network, see a variety of game, to find other uncle district where board games, fishing to the river, sit afternoon .
This is a manifestation of masculinity: men to have the information and intelligence as a hierarchical form, with more information and intelligence men living in the upper grades, I like to get together, to inquire what the grapevine, will become their own information and the amount of intellectual inferiority.
The performance was a quiet, calm, even a quiet, calm, sitting in front of the TV, but also more in line with the traditional label masculinity. Moreover, the national news network standing behind itself a masculine institution has.
However, the global universal aunt uncle than a strong high-profile ......
In a cross-cultural study of the theoretical framework in older women, women in the adult sons and daughters, as slowly from the daughter, wife, mother's identity constraint to be freed, in the family and family members began to enjoy more and more words powers, in the family, but also began to gain extra sense of accomplishment and recognition. For example, they can begin to engage in its capability to play midwife, matchmaker, witches and other professional.
This is because in older women after menopause, they will no longer go through sex, or sex will no longer result in consequences contrary to the ethics of the family, which makes them out from her husband's authority and subordination, becoming both an insurmountable Regulation tame sex groups.
China willing to Aunt enjoyed in public square dance, a little rub unrestrained aunt and uncle also enjoyed unrestrained large-scale dance veneer and did not feel embarrassed, precisely because they show in a person's physical, he has no moral burden.
Similar examples across the globe. For example, in remote areas of some countries, older women can wantonly drinking in public places, even when villagers were killed on the spot next to the village people, and only the older women have the right to the next village dragged the bodies back placement.
Chinese Aunt master the family's financial power, hit 30 billion overnight, swept the gold, the whole drama of a stir on Wall Street did not house the old man any thing, in fact, nothing. After the change in global Aunt aunt, uncle to be stronger than general.
They do not just sweep the gold, but they are ready to dislike the daughter or son candidate door.
For example, in Acholi, the mother of her daughter's fiance picked a direct veto in the Muslim regions of Morocco, only the mother can be seen and interviewed candidates for his son's fiancee, son and Plenipotentiary decide whether the front of the girl You can get married, and later get married, to marry the son of which is more suitable, ah ......
Even in the low status of women in India to the dust, the girls coming to mother, and his mother when, in this life can be considered proudly, because then she can at home and his wife on an equal footing.
Sociologist Richards has mixed feelings for this: If a woman first half as husband, children and families slaves, then their later life is like a great queen.
Therefore, the "girl sooner or later becomes Aunt" with "girls day becomes Queen", many hearts will not feel better? (Author: Dai Fu two)
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