[Game] deceive yourself
In the drama, even in your office on the seat opposite, often have a silly woman, fell in love with a Baoqing Lang. Half-hearted man, full of lies. The poor girl knew a man carrying himself with other women together, not residence comfort myself: They are normal working relationship together, or just by chance encounter, a man will eventually return to their side, or there will be no next time. So infatuated woman always waiting for the change of heart of men, not bruised and never listen to the advice to give up again. We always say: This girl is too infatuated, fans loved carried away. Some people will say: this girl stupid, if I, would have put the man dumped. But do not forget, every girl cheated, perhaps have said similar words.
Look at another example. One pair their luck very confident man suddenly received a text message, said he was in up to two million grand prize, so he happily call the past to ask, was told that there a lot of money in a a distant city waiting for him to pick up, but the first to pay thousands of dollars fee. There are millions of large sums of money can take thousands of dollars to what they counted, and he was happy to pay the money out. This may look endless, now have to pay income tax, but also a moment to pay fines, the award has not arrived, money has continued to dig out. This time, people around to see it was a hoax, but the man has repeatedly think these are the leading money-winning formal procedures, bear a child sets the wolf vain, until the last pockets emptied before wringing, repent. Such people say stupid, fooled university professors also no shortage of such people say greed, then greed can not own their own trick ah?
In many cases, we will find some tragic figure in the side. They have a common characteristic, that is, while not dull, but often fall into one absolutely no good things escape. Despite relatives around, friends and spectators how to persuade, they always come to their senses, even naive find many reasons to deceive ourselves. Until one day, when he was tortured, he was finally freed when we come to their senses and repentant. Why do people come to their senses some psychologists have given a solemn answer:? Cognitive disorders.
[Cult believers cognitive dissonance]
"Cognitive dissonance," is that when you make a decision, action or experience is not the same faith with you originally anticipated, emotional, or values, the cause inner conflict, a state of mind to the experience. Cognitive dissonance theory is the invention of American social psychologist Leon Festinger.
In 1957, Festinger and his students got into a group of cultists among these believers hope by observing the behavior of their psychological research. The arrival of the cult believers believe in one day will be a big flood to destroy the entire world, and their guardian will sail the ship to rescue them and take them to a safe place. For this reason a lot of speech a firm believer in the work, sell their assets, confidently waiting for this day to come. When the day prophecy of destruction comes, the world safe, neither flooding nor spacecraft, stands to reason that these believers should awaken to the truth, this cult abandoned as Bilv. Surprisingly, however, the faith of some believers but more determined. (Author: Wu Li)
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