I realize that this may not be my (original author, the same below) most popular articles, but I think it needs to be said, so let's get started.
I am not a marriage of brain residual powder.
I believe that marriage requires those who have the ability to create real change and put them in the institution of marriage is widely accepted in truly talented dreamers and creators, they spend most of their time, emotion, charm and precious energy and strive to become "good" citizens, and achieve success is rooted in our minds of those who can not "perfect marriage / perfect family" fantasy.
Marriage also let us produce this fatal idea of possibilities: now we have another soul, as they say "I do", give us a ring and a sign said they would never leave our agreement . (Have you ever stopped and thought about how crazy idea?)
Soul mate is just a legend
Making us one of the biggest victims of the lie is to make our lives more fully, we need other people in our lives. We were created just to wait for the right man or woman appears Destiny so we can start our lives and achieve true happiness.
My husband and I have been together for 15 years, we are still very fond of each other. I think that both of us now largely independent, beautiful, create brilliant, trying to help each other achieve personal objectives. We're so out differently, but any of us to change the other party will not fight. We have grown to know how to respect and appreciate each other real look. We do not need each other. We like each other, but not both need each other ...... very different. World's most romantic word is "you make me whole," Whenever I hear these words at the wedding, so I just want to scream. I want to make myself be complete.
Rotation alone until you are able to live in harmony with the surrounding environment and be able to independently create a miracle so far. Then you can do it, if you make a choice, to attract another man rotation alone beside you. Then the result will be two beautiful soul spinning alone, but complement each other ...... This is where the miracle!
The child how to do?
I do not believe that the intention of each of us wants children, but let us have a share of pressure from the family culture is very ridiculous! The pressure tells us that once you decide to have children, then they should allow you to find a partner to help you reason to give children the best possible life becomes a common sense. This does not mean you have to live in a house, but you have to promise to work together to ensure that the support given to the child to become a healthy, confident, emotionally stable members of society.
If you really get married, because this is what you want wonderful. Then you strive to make your expectations come true and honest about your true feelings it. In a long long time people feel the pain of frustration discordant relationship is not conducive to health. This is why in our lives we have so many of our parents' traumatic relationship, first love, etc. related. Because when we broke up, we used to have about what love fairy imagination becomes different.
Do not marry your soul mate
Billy is one of my good friend (really the best kind). He thought I was a wonderful, amazing and incredibly wonderful people. He is always ready to give everything to help and support me, which I believe he will do it anyway. He is the most incredible father and teammates. We are perfect for each other in many aspects pair. We almost always give each other the best. We do not need to rely on each other and even though we prefer to stand together, we can stand independently. This relationship is simple and very mature. Billy considerate, patient, downright good and I love him, but from some mysterious and ancient ties, he was not my soul mate, his presence in some way just to complete my life. In a totally unique alliance with a completely unique own purposes, we are together.
What is a soul mate? Is there such a thing? Each of us will be based on their own beliefs gave different answers. I personally think a soul mate who is from the beginning of time to connect with us together. People circuitous detour out of this huge Internet many people's lives by our collection. Soul match perfectly with our own to help us grow. Our soul mate is not always refers to our lover. I think for all of us to understand that it is very important. As a culture, we do not seem to understand the deep relationship between sexual or romantic or union, but there is a larger goal. Deep links between any two people are induced to become romantic, right? wrong. In this crazy world there are a variety of links. I believe in soul mates and when you need them, they will appear in your life. They applied pressure you, challenge you, where you reflect insufficient wake you, push you forward. To tell the truth, and not as people who are married, you might be better off, because then you will focus on creating your ideal marriage (no matter what, even if hell) forget why from the very beginning of your soul and you want to put it together. You will easily forget, your job is to help each other as soon evolved into not torture each other, that we have created a good husband and a wife should play a role. Because who knows that for each of us would look like. God knows we have experienced interesting change these roles.
It is this idea that one should make up for heartache and disappointment we meet all the needs. Instead, why do not we take a look at another person and we want to build or complete relationship would be like. Then I believe that the universe will send us a goal and that matches the perfect person. If you just want to have a person of the opposite sex and then travel the world together, you want to have children than you, you will summon a completely different spirit. If you are unsure, then believe me this time. Know exactly what we want is the first step to be able to continue to create the most fantastic combination.
Listen, I'm not an expert, of course, I also did not want to know it all. But I do believe one thing, and that is what we are doing is real. You know how many happy couples? Well, you know how many have been together for several years and have children? Just live comfortably, it is true happiness. It makes you confused whether we were wrong. We are looking for our lives that crazy, wild, passionate love to match, and at all costs with that person until death do us part. Perhaps, just suppose, that we should be looking for something completely different things.
Let's re-write the rules.
Let's break parenting, love, fellowship, friendship, contact, joint soul mate, life and marriage, as we understand them, know how they will create works without being troubled rule concerns what we will know in the end feel for our souls is right.
Because if nobody tells you, it is generally overvalued.
(Author: Brooke compilation: Dorism)
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