M good girlfriends, women know everything. They can not complain when your trash to the driver, bodyguard and intimate Brother, is relaxed companionship and strong support. However, from a psychological point of view, this is the heart of the female animus projection by male girlfriends to help stabilize their own heart, enrich their perspective, so that the relationship is more successful.
With the TV series "I love men girlfriends," the hit, regardless of male girlfriends in the drama outside the movies or have become a buzzword. Inventory of familiar famous male girlfriends: Kevin Tsai of small S, Huang Xiaoming in the Zhao Wei, He Jiong, Xie Na in the, in the Dai Jun Jing ...... With the development of society, women are no longer satisfied with the girlfriends of the same sex Friendship between. Because different girlfriends and sex is male girlfriends only can cry with you, laugh with you, accompany you crazy, trouble with you, listen to you talk, borrow your shoulder, shelter for you, but also with the level you were male perspective the depth of the spirit of sharing.
There was a survey data show that 80% of women want to have a male girlfriends. Woman desire for male girlfriends evident. In small-scale survey of our neighboring female white-collar workers found that, with men girlfriends woman look more attractive in conversation, and a sense of happiness and loneliness also let no man girlfriends woman eyes full of envy, and of course repressed just to take the jealousy small head.
Male girlfriends meet a woman in the end what kind of psychological needs?
see the light from the mess
"Male girlfriends is my mentor, he was particularly understand me, tell me to be spiritual exchange." Sun Yi manpower director said with a smile, "same-sex girlfriends can go shopping together, gossip, chat family chat husband can tell yourself together parenting, assume the construction of the family's economic M girlfriends just to make up my husband and female girlfriends are unable to meet part if life compared to a circle, men girlfriends life was successful, "Sun Yi summary is in place,. Dr. counselor Zhang Pei ultra opinion, a male girlfriends did meet her husband and friends can not meet the general emotion. M meet her husband but did not satisfy close female friend can not satisfy man. Zhang Pei Chao that this is a transitional space similar transitional object relationship between the perfect relationship, married women, if the husband can meet all feature, male girlfriends function will be weakened.
If you say something like plush toys, blankets and other items are transitional object the infant when the mother is not around, you can give the baby a sense of security and comfort, get rid of loneliness and anxiety. Male girlfriends give us not only to appease the emotional, but also bring substantial help. In Counselor Lu Yue opinion, a male to female girlfriends provided a type of warm or a hold-type relationship. "In our lives we may experience both trouble A trouble is that we hurt a great need for someone to hug. But sometimes, that hurt us is a confused, need a directional guidance. As the male Perspective relatively rational, objective, will not be coerced emotion was so intense, you seem to be able to see the light from the mess inside. "
If women's relationship with her husband is not particularly good, the need of the opposite sex, men need to listen and understand the perspective of giving, even directional guidance.
mirroring own inner Unknown
Women in their dealings with the men girlfriends in addition obtain listen, accompany and support these husbands rare behavior, but Zhang Pei ultra opinion, is also a woman's own animus projection, by his own men and girlfriends help stabilize heart structure.
Psychologist Carl Jung believed that every man has an unconscious female character and image - Accordingly, every woman unconscious also has a male character and image - animus. A man of self-nature, self-discovery process, or how to become a person of his / her own, the most important thing is the Anima / Animus integration. In Rose opinion, she now met 18 years male girlfriends will maintain very close, pure friendship is because of each other's views, "the man is relatively rational, thinking more clearly, make decisions simply direct, and it will tell you this determine what impact, positive malpractice glance, weigh yourself to it, you will soon make a good mood and never come out. "Rose said he is now thinking clearly been affected male girlfriends.
For married women, if their husbands in the Animus mirroring can not get enough, then you may be looking for girlfriends male body. "Because a perfect personality, fatherhood and motherhood needs two kinds of psychotropic substances nourishment. When a person weak, needs a mother hold their own intrinsic, given sufficient sense of security, but also need the guidance of an inherent father himself, pushing himself and develop their own. "Lu Yue said.
go beyond that, to enrich our relationship
In fact, the presence of male girlfriends highlights the gender relations in modern society is undergoing a subtle change is an improvement. In East China Jiaotong University Counseling Center of the GAO opinion, a stable relationship with friends is an important way of modern women's health life. When women experience problems need to talk and vent, due to its high homogeneity between girlfriends, ideas, perspectives, perspective will be more and more similar. When there are problems, such as emotional tangle itself, but also inconvenient to share with their boyfriend or husband, the male advantage girlfriends on the highlights out.
However, men with girlfriends get along in the process, Zhang Pei-chao, grasp well, is a relationship of women if mishandled, but will bring their own infinite trouble, girlfriends do not even friends will lose one. Because, in the psychological expert opinion, as long as the men walked together with women, over time, the lust of things will come out. This is also a lot of people do not question where the purely fundamental friendship between women and men and girlfriends. In this regard, Rose special to share his experience: "The two sides are relatively clear boundaries, although enjoy each other, know each other but are clearly not their own food because there is no concept of gender, both sides can talk about anything, including men and women. relationship, share their feelings with each other. "
Male girlfriends there, so in the past some of the pent-up demand of women get some release. "But how to keep this part of a healthy release, both to enjoy a collection of diverse relationship, and not lose yourself in the relationship, this relationship as possible with your partner, you need more time, carefully thinking." Pei Zhang Chao said. After all, if only spiritual communication between men and women with girlfriends, we can interfere with each other, superficial, this is actually a very great human and spiritual realm.
So, I want to cultivate yourself? Male girlfriends to find it!
What kind of woman more likely to have male boudoir?
can quickly capture each other's needs
Special greetings can be, for example, saw a man look well, tell him now seasonal drink soup is a little cool weather, is not less clothes ...... let men have a very warm feeling like being taken care of.
I can stand before
30 years after the woman, to rely on their charm itself to be able to rival with men. For example Chai Jing, when a man with the help of contacts, she is not just a listener, she has her own ideas, from a female perspective to say some very sharp point of view, will be a good complement to the male world. Men tend to be more admired and admire this woman, but also easy to establish the relationship.
intercourse with men better boy power
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