In reality, most of the long distance relationship eventually broke up, which is why a lot of "experts" claim that long distance relationship is not a good idea, does not work. However, if you learn how to communicate and give your relationship a good set of principles, long distance relationship can still fruition.
Maintain a long distance relationship is not easy, it requires the two sides trust each other, to take responsibility, to pay together, principles, to understand communication. Here are 10 recommendations how to maintain a long distance relationship help of you get a permanent love. as follows:
[Skills I: Relationship to you some of the principles and provisions set]
In a study of long distance relationships, 70% of couples do not set the principle of off-site, or process changes, so within six months parted ways. This means that the two sides set a series of principles is extremely important. These principles may include where: the two sides agreed not date other both exchanges every at least two or three months to see the side, and so on.
[Skills II: maintain exchanges per day]
Part of the reason is that successful long distance relationships can be modeled on the pattern of normal intercourse relations. One of them is the daily communication. The emergence of the Internet for a couple long distance relationships is simply a godsend.
[Skills III: to express your true feelings]
To truly express your feelings for your relationship development and stability via e-mail, instant messaging, the phone is very important. One can increase the stability of your relationship is a way to comfort your TA will be responsible, so that the other party at ease. When you express your feelings is to let the person know you're paying, you will safeguard your relationship.
[Four Skills: send Acacia Trinidad]
TA from time to time to prepare some things and send them over, express your miss. Some things are listed below for reference:
Books, letters, make their own arts and crafts, phone cards, chocolate, music CD, video messages, candy, real roses, postcards, stuffed toys, fake roses, vacation with things, message in a bottle, chocolate roses, press flowers, your photo, carved roses, gift cards, jewelry, spiritual "key", bubble bath, movie tickets, personalized poetry.
The more personalized and imaginative, your partner for your thoughtfulness on the more profound impression.
[Five Tips: two simultaneously over]
Even if you and the other half from a few hours away, you can also experience the "date night." For example, in two places at the same time to see movies. We planned to go to the movies at the same time, to call each other over the next discussion. You know each other and do the same thing at the same time is very fun. Although the sub-office in two places, you can share some time together.
[Tip 6: Do not automatically]
To each other's feelings to be certain about. Do not assume your partner know what you're thinking - to keep TA share. Granted this half-baked ideas will ruin distance relationship, and clear communication to make a long distance relationship success. Let TA know your ambitions, fears, emotions and desires, which helps you share with each other deeper things.
[Seven skills: mutual trust]
Low self-esteem and a lack of trust will undermine good relations. For example, I know a woman met a good man, is she spent the past three years in a relationship of "recovery" after the first man over the encounter. Unfortunately, she was still carrying on a segment failure emotional burden. She put a good man bad man's return to the ranks, their own paranoia, insecurity, eventually lost him.
I do not now entangled objects and old stories to go with. Now give people a chance. My philosophy is that I totally believe you, until you are not to be believed so far. If you do not trust each other in different places, then you destroy their own feelings.
[Tips eight: planning meet regularly]
For long distance relationships often meet success is very important. Like the first, like, set a guideline, see how long time, when saw. Booked day after day to ensure undisturbed. When you cancel the meeting time (such as a pretext "My friends invited me to go to the beach to play," or "I forgot that week for a final exam"), you are in this relationship to each other, said nothing for you. To see TA, you should cancel all arrangements. If you let other things interfere with the meeting, you may need to consider why you want to be together.
[Tips nine: share the passion]
If you can get along swimmingly, you will be more understanding of your partner, especially living in different places. After that, you will be more clearly each other's likes and dislikes, as well as passion. TA to find out any more passion, then you can join. Let's say each other like tennis, but you never played. Then start tennis lessons from it, and then exchange of communication with others. Think about what you both are interested in passion, then share, will greatly enhance your relationship.
[Tips Ten: Surprise]
You will often hear people say, "I like surprises." Surprise a lot of fun, because it suddenly, and performance to surprise people thoughtful and fun. Think about what you can give each other a surprise manufactured. But do not let people think should have been, then the surprise effect is not so good.
[Here some ideas for reference:]
Suddenly see the
Make a video, record your "life's most important events," TA to show
A gift, when you meet people when to go to the TA. Corresponding to the number of weeks and the number of gifts you next time you want to meet. For example, the next time you meet every other eight weeks, send eight, each of which is assigned a number. Called TA open one every Monday morning. This will enhance each other's expectations, you will feel more intimate ......
If you take the time and effort, you can also remote fruition. As Dr. Phil says, "If you love a person, you will be over the mountains, cut into heaven dragon ......"
[Recall 10 Tips:]
Skills I: Relationship to you some of the principles and provisions laid down
Skills II: every day to keep the exchange
Skills III: to express your true feelings
Four Skills: send Acacia Trinidad
Five Tips: two places at the same time too
Tip 6: Do not automatically
Seven skills: mutual trust
Tips eight: Planning to meet regularly
Tips nine: share the passion
Tips Ten: Surprise
Read, what do you think of it? I expect to do, not tomorrow, just today, right now.
Carpe diem! Seiza the day!
good luck! (Author: Heart Lai Temple)
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